How am I supposed to date as an asexual introverted 24 y/o man? Been on dating apps for months and I haven’t gotten a single match, and going out to meet ppl scares me… Am I doomed?

  • Walt J. Rimmer@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    mostly the people seem to date in order to find a compatible match for sexual relief, rather than a deep relationship

    I find that to be a very pessimistic and dismissive view of most people. While sex is important to a lot of people and a lot of relationships, to say that most people just want sex and not a meaningful relationship is wrong and paints most people in a very negative light. In my experience, most people are looking for something meaningful. It’s hard to succeed at finding that, but it’s what most people are searching for.