• moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 months ago

    this power imbalance is bad for everyone as well, if you meet up with someone via these (if are not male presenting), there is a concerningly high chance that you get sexually assaulted, I am terrified how common this seems to be among the women I’ve talked to

      • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.net
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        4 months ago

        I think they mean if you’re a woman (trans or cis), it can be terrifying to meet with people. At least that’s how I interpreted it.

        Edit: Perhaps they are also talking about non-binary people, which is why they chose the words “not male presenting”.

      • Match!!@pawb.social
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        4 months ago

        In addition to what the other posters said, even merely being a skinny twink (insufficiently male-presenting) is dangerous in some places