• HappyTimeHarry@lemm.ee
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    23 hours ago

    Well I don’t think they do cremations in groups like that. If they do then yeah there is no way to know who’s ashes, but I would also say theres no way to prove they aren’t and really in the end its all just carbon.

    • bitchkat@lemmy.world
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      23 hours ago

      It doesn’t bother me at all. I don’t even really need a bag of ashes back. The memories are important.

      I’m set up for my body to got the University because that’s the cheapest way to dispose of a body. They tell you that your family can get ashes back but they all get mixed together.

      • MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works
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        10 hours ago

        Same here, my body goes to the local ned school. They’ll return to he ashes if you want, but I don’t care. I cleared it with my sister before signing the forms because she does care about cremains etc. Apparently the university has a memorial garden where they spread the ashes.