• Alph4d0g@discuss.tchncs.de
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    14 days ago

    I would consider myself generally attracted to an entire gender. The degrees of attraction is what varies. It goes from low to high based on something mysterious in my brain. I also recognize that is how I happen to be wired but others are wired differently. In the end, that diversity of wiring keeps humans interesting and diverse in both thinking and biology.

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      14 days ago

      Technically speaking I would assume you are at most attracted to an entire gender of your own species, possibly also limited to certain age ranges.

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        13 days ago

        True. And funny thing to add to that. As I age, so does that wiring. Where I used to put more weight on appearance, I’m now more likely to be turned off by certain behaviors one might describe as pedantry.

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        12 days ago

        When I was younger let’s say 10, I couldn’t understand how people found older people attractive. It is amazing how it changes over time. Had you asked me if I thought a 50 year old women could be attractive, to me at 10, never could have… at 35… they are slowly becoming more and more attractive.