• taladar@sh.itjust.works
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    14 days ago

    Attraction might not be a choice but making an effort to be attractive or not certainly is. I am talking about the basics that anyone can achieve like hygiene, tone of the conversation,…

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      14 days ago

      Absolutely! Very rare I think of someone, “Wow. There’s not a thing they could do to be more attractive.” LOL, it’s a tough stat to max out!

      Makes me sad to see so many comments about people thinking they’re ugly and there’s nothing to be done. One of my best friend’s through school was the fattest around, by a huge margin, really freaky in the 80s. Saw a pic of him after he grew up and came out gay. My man was hot!