• ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Then why tf are you commenting at all???

    That’s like jumping into a support group and being like “damn that sucks have you tried not having that happen to you?”

    If it doesn’t apply to you why tf are you even here?

    • jmanes@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Seems like a humble-brag / flex / punching down to me. I don’t buy that they are totally ignorant to what they are saying.

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      1 year ago

      Just saying that despite the memes it’s completely possible for a normal dude to buy themselves a home. I believed the meme until I tried. The more people I get to try buying a house, the more people get to buy a house, making their lives better and landlords lives worse which is a great win-win in my books.

      Why fall into despair when there are things you can do to help your situation is what I’d ask you, knowing full well you didn’t answer the question I laid.

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        1 year ago

        The problem is that you’re being extremely naive and ignorant of the rapidly worsening material conditions the majority of people in the west are experiencing. Your suggestion that “there must be something you can do to improve things, why are you whining?” comes across as tone deaf and dismissive.

        People are struggling to keep their bills paid, and most are doing everything they possibly can to try and improve their situation, yet are still failing to keep their heads above water. It’s like someone is screaming “Help!! Help!! I’m drowning!!” and you’re screaming back “I’m swimming just fine, isn’t there something you can do to stay afloat? Why are you panicking?”

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          “there must be something you can do to improve things, why are you whining?”

          If the “why are you whining” part is how it came across that’s on me. I meant it more like, “there are always possibilities to improve upon your situation and that is always a better option than falling into hopeless despair which merely keeps you misery”. And no I don’t mean just get a fifth job lmaoo, but literally anything that’s reasonable and realistic.

          Nipping off anything off your budget so you can get 20 bucks saved a month is a better option than giving up on the dream of owning a house.

          Unionizing for a better pay to get 20 bucks saved a month is perhaps a bit more provocative option but an extremely healthy one at that.

          You get the jist. Like I said to the other fella in this comment tree, I’ve been reading into credit rating system during this convo and yeah I start to understand where the high emotions come from.