We should do our absolute best to not become a siloed instance. I predict we will start seeing certain instances be almost inaccessible which will lead to their users migrating to more open instances. It’s already becoming clear to me that certain instances will lose users over time if they continue actively segregating their instance from others.

Individual bad actors on other instances is not a good enough reason to defederate. If a troll is bothing someone they can be blocked/banned on sh.itjust.works. I don’t expect instance creators to ban all trolls, it’s not possible.

Defederation should be reserved for severe cases when another instance shows no interest in moderating. The two instances defederated right now are justified: one condones the denial historical events and actively censors opposition, and the other was condoning heinous illegal activies regarding underage individuals. These are two clear examples of where defederation makes sense.

Defederation should only be used as a last resort.

My previous post continues this sentiment from a couple days ago here: https://sh.itjust.works/post/281126

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    I see the Fediverse as a network that can subsume all existing social media networks. In order for that to work we have to fight to make sure the network is as cohesive as possible. This includes places that contain content or opinions that we won’t agree with.

    I think de-federation should be very limited and mostly a low level administrative function.

    Fighting spam is a good example or what I mean. Since anybody can make an instance and have it spew spam users/comments into the greater community. The ability to unlink from these instances is a vital tool for making the network run smoothly.

    Illegal things like CSAM or sites that engage in the orchestration of violence, doxing or online harassment are, to me, a red line for content that cannot exist on the network. Too many locations, where instances are hosted, have laws against these things and allowing federation of instances with this type of content can leave the instance owners open to legal issues. Because of that, they cannot be federated with.

    The sticky part, and where people argue the most, is when it comes to viewpoints that they consider extreme. To take a US viewpoint (as I’m a US user) the current culture war issues in the US create a flashpoint where essentially every side is convinced that they’re correct and that the other side is literally evil and that should justify not federating with them.

    I don’t think it takes much investigative work to see that I’m more on the left end of the spectrum. On top of that, I live in a rural area and so I’m constantly having to interact with people on the right who have opinions that I find… extreme. The thing that I’ve found is that if you can engage with them as a person, have some empathy and understand their viewpoints it usually isn’t hard to dissuade them of their more extremist notions. Most people are simply a product of the media that they consume, they’re not evil they’re just repeating things they heard and things that made them feel outraged or afraid.

    Being able to provide that opposing viewpoint and to engage with people who seem otherwise unreachable is incredibly important to moderating the worst viewpoints. The idea of de-federating instances is the antithesis of this idea. All that is doing is walling them into a bubble where they only ever hear opinions that agree with them and nothing builds extremism like never being told that you’re wrong and never having to defend your ideas. I think it is better for the health of all of society to keep the lines of communication open to instances that maintain the bare minimum of standards for their content.

    I know that not everyone agrees with this idea and I certainly understand the draw and comfort of being able to just put them out of your mind but I also think that the right things to do isn’t always the most comfortable thing to do.

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      This is what I always try to preach. The internet if today has bred some crazy right wingers. And it’s because of the bad algorithms in the likes of Facebook that end up causing echo chambers that further radicalise the impressionable. We should strive to fight for their right to not be defederated so they don’t end up in an echo chamber

      We may never see them again, but people in their real life will, and being in an echo chamber will make them worse. We need them to be able to see the other side and they need to be challenged. Challenged in a meaningful manner though and not just getting angry at them and calling them names. Discussions need to happen, of all kinds. Even if implicitly via different posts popping up and not just with direct comments and messages if you know what I mean.

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        I’ve had experiences interacting with homophobes in my own life (I’m gay), and by and large they don’t change their position and only make me feel horrible after the interaction. Those who are on the fence I could see the avenue for nuance, but there shouldn’t be spaces to encourage fence sitters to be more homophobic

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          If those fence sitters have ended up registered on the instance to become defederated then defederation is doing just that. Encouraging them to become more homophobic.

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      I understand where you’re coming from, I really do.

      But deplatform Nazis and fascists. Always and everywhere. They don’t operate on the same good faith that you give them, they take every opportunity to spread hate under the cover of “free speech”, and if they know they can keep getting away with it, they will.

      There can be spaces to deradicalize of course, but that’s not the same as giving someone free reign to spout hate.

      See also: the paradox of tolerance

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        So you want to create echo-chambers and live in your filter bubble? Fine but don’t force that onto others.

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        NOT MY OPINION:

        Deplatform LGBTQ always and everywhere. They don’t operate on the same good faith that you give them, they take every opportunity to spread hate under the cover of “free speech”, and if they know they can keep getting away with it, they will.

        There can be spaces to rehabilitate them of course, but that’s not the same as giving someone free reign to spout hate against traditional family values.

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        The above is something that would be totally uncontroversial in my country if anyone said it on national TV. In fact, they might be seen as being quite soft on LGBT people since they weren’t calling for total eradication of LGBT folk. Interesting you mention paradox of tolerance, the same is used to justify why people should outright hate LGBT folk and never tolerate them (in my country at least).

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    I agree. We shouldn’t be allergic to bad takes or even grifters (though individually I want the power to block them).

    If some instances are just private, that’s fine. But I genuinely fear joining an instance only to have it defederate later.

    I want everybody in my feed!

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    Ive seen a lot of opinions like this, and for me its missing the entire point of the fediverse: instances are free to make their own decisions.

    If you think defederating for anything other than the most extreme reasons is bad, thats fine. There are instances like that

    And if people are happy with more defederation for any reason, those instances exist

    Any meta-discussion about how widely defederation should be used across ALL instances is inherently kinda dumb

    And as an aside: people are really overreacting to beehaw temporarily defederating from two big instances to deal with an unprecedented rise in users and activity. Its not a big deal.

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      There are instances like that

      Likewise, there are instance that already have the likes of exploding-heads defederated. This is a discussion on how defederation should be used. And I for one agree with OP, only use defederation when absolutely necessary.

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      Any meta-discussion about how widely defederation should be used across ALL instances is inherently kinda dumb

      Unfortunately, this is true. We’ll never convince everyone in the Fediverse to see things our way, nor vice versa. And we shouldn’t. So, some instances will pick and choose, while others will stay wide open to federation.

      The other side of this coin, though, is when an instance gets large enough to be able to host differing views. At that point, federation or defederation can’t simply be what I want, or what the loudest voice wants, but what everyone can live with.

      What I see eventually happening, is there will be several large instances with large user bases. These will federate with almost everyone. Then you’ll have smaller niche instances, for those looking to fine-tune their experience.

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    True. Although, I’ve seen even the most aggressively defederated instances of mastodon be very active long-term and even grow. (poa.st may be one of the most defederated instances for example, and 1. there’s still a lot of instances federated to them and 2. they still have a very active userbase.)

    Quick note about this:

    the other was condoning heinous illegal activies regarding underage individuals

    As far as I know, they don’t actually condone anything regarding “individuals” per se. Afaik Burggit’s underage content is limited to hentai (japanese-style drawings) specifically. Which is not to say it is not illegal, because in Canada, it is illegal and categorized as child pornography.

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      underage content is limited to hentai

      In my opinion I don’t see that as a limit, hentai can be even more fine tuned to give satisfaction to those who desire it. I don’t want to see it on any platform that I take part in even including www.lemmynsfw.com which has made it explicitly clear that they will not accept anything that even resembles such a thing. ANYTHING related to underage content within that context should be forbidden, it benefits no one and is demonstrably harmful.

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        In my opinion I don’t see that as a limit,

        Do you mean that you have seen that they do not limit themselves to hentai, and do in fact condone activities beyond that?

        www.lemmynsfw.com which has made it explicitly clear that they will not accept anything that even resembles such a thing

        True, I read that the general consensus from people in the instance poll is to not allow it.

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          I mean that I don’t see hentai as a limit, nothing about hentai is “limiting”. It’s still not welcome. I’m glad lemmynsfw made that decision early on to be strict forbidding anything that even slightly resembles that content.

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            It’s just as bad as allowing it in any other format, possibly even worse.

            I have moderated very active open chatrooms in the past and lemme tell ya, the “real stuff” is way worse. For the sake of your (and everyone else reading this thread’s) sanity, I won’t go into too much detail about what kids endure. But when it comes to the question of whether a sexualized drawing of a kid is worse than a community-funded video of the abuse of a kid… I’m sure you probably didn’t think much about what you said lol.

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        To claim something is “demonstrably harmful” you actually have to demonstrate harm, not just cry about people liking fiction you don’t.

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    Defederating shouldnt be used at all. If you don’t like what you see, don’t fucking browse it, block people who post it, etc. Don’t fucking make it harder for everyone else to interact just because you’re upset not everyone agrees with you.

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      Then why use a platform with federation / defederation as a core feature? Why not Nostr or SSB? Why activitypub?

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        I would hardly describe defederation as a core feature so much as a reasonable necessity to keep people able to host instances.

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    I’d argue that Lemmygrad shouldn’t be defederated, because, while Lemmygrad itself does not allow for proper discussion, other instances do and Lemmygrad users could be confronted on those instances. ‘Could’, because due to the defederation, Lemmygrad user comments won’t show for users of this instance.

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      Lemmygrad is something else, on a level with exploding heads. I even try to avoid lemmy.ml, because the devs are tankies, too… but at least there are normal users there, too. The lemmygrad ban is absolutely fine.

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        What the hell? I thought this was better than reddit. The fact that all shit from reddit transfered to some instances just makes me sad.

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        I’ve been working on a nonbiased worldnews. lemmy.ml having the most popular worldnews with their clear bias is worrying.

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          all news has bias and the fact that you feel you can create a non-biased world news on your own just shows how unqualified you are. To even get close you’d need multiple people with different biases.

          You are not some perfect judge of neutrality. Far from.

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            I plan on utilising mediabiasfactcheck and have it as a disclaimer for every newly created thread, listing the bias and factual reporting on whatever outlet is posted.

            For breaking news, only reputable sources with a neutral bias and high factual reporting will be allowed.

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              Thats fine but your bias will be tested with what you allow to stay up. Will you allow news from sources rated as extreme - will it depend on if its extreme left or extreme right? Will you allow reposts of stories that spark outrage in the cases it sparks outrage you like, but take down stories that spark outrage you dont like? Will you even notice if you’re moderating and locking threads that spark your political adversaries outrage, but participating in threads that spark your political allies outrage?

              If you’re serious about trying to be neutral I suggest you look for someone somewhat ideologically opposed to you to create that balance in the space.

              The nice thing about lemmy is that whatever happens, the world news instance that manages to exorcise obvious bs and propaganda the best will hopefully flourish.

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                Will you allow news from sources rated as extreme - will it depend on if its extreme left or extreme right?

                Anything between left-right is fine.

                During breaking news, it’ll only be centre. No twitter threads or anonymous sources. Only trusted, reliable and reputable news.

                Will you allow reposts of stories that spark outrage in the cases it sparks outrage you like, but take down stories that spark outrage you dont like?

                I probably won’t deal with reposts so long as it’s within the current month. If the community becomes active, then I won’t allow reposts from old headlines. I’m pretty neutral with any article so long as it’s true and fair.

                Will you even notice if you’re moderating and locking threads that spark your political adversaries outrage, but participating in threads that spark your political allies outrage?

                I won’t lock threads unless I become unavailable.

                If you’re serious about trying to be neutral I suggest you look for someone somewhat ideologically opposed to you to create that balance in the space.

                I’m neutral myself, so I don’t really know what the opposition of that is.

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                  again, you’re not neutral yourself. You’re just failing to identify your own biases.

                  Im pretty sure you were the guy right wing trolling in fact, because I viewed your history when you put yourself up for agora mod. but you seem to have a new account or have cleared some of it.