Like the title says: I’ve been with many guys and they’ve been all over the map on this. I’m curious as to where we stand. Vote and have fun in the comments. :)

EDITED TO ADD:

Bonus Question: do you announce you’re cumming by saying “I’m gonna cum” or something?

  • ohkigo@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    My partner and I have been slowly getting more vocal since we’ve recently gotten a bit more privacy, and ooohhh boy is it fun to moan loud.

    I find it so much fun to egg her on and to moan while fingering her, a lot of our dirty talk is just shit like “yeah moan louder you dirty slut, moan like you fuckin want it” and we both love it. She also enjoys it when I’m riding her strap on and she makes me whimper. We switch so much, it doesn’t feel like a “submissive” thing to moan and whimper and whatnot. We use moans as feedback for “this is good keep going” and it’s veerrryyy good at that. Some of our best and most memorable times together were when we had the place to ourselves and didn’t have to worry about anyone hearing haha

    As for cumming, she absolutely loves it when I tell her she’s making me cum, so that’s also a yes :)

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com
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      1 year ago

      That sounds really hot I’ve had to actively encourage some women to vocalize and talk more. I agree the feedback is so important.