• intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    The key thing in forming friendships is to encounter the person by accident. Making plans each time kills the bonding magic; you have to bump into them.

    This is why regular presence in a social space is key. You need to have people you encounter without having specifically planned to see them.

    I don’t know why this is, but it’s true.