Any kind of naughtiness make sure to add it here. We’re dying to know!

I’ll add my own non-update below :-)

  • CADmonkey@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Being the dominant partner is completely new for me, so I’m having to work at it. An example: the wife is in to CNC/rape play, and I’m a bit uncomfortable with it. But she wanted it. Cue me, sitting in the car outside of our house after work, trying to get it together well enough that I could do what she wanted. I made it happen, and we had fun, but I’m more of a soft dom.

    Being dominant takes practice, it would appear.

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      1 year ago

      You sound like a good partner. I enjoy being a pleasure dom a lot. I’m not sure I could be “mean” even if it’s just acting.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah the “being mean” is difficult and I don’t nornally do it. But if she wants me to drag her to bed I’m going to do it.