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    Past week, been seeing a lot of anti liberal stuff on lemmy. So, you’ve got people from the outside trying to destabilize the u.s. saying, both sides are the same, democrats are just as bad as Republicans. This creates a scenario that created Trump becoming president in the 1st place. It’s done on purpose.

    Now, I understand that democrats, liberals aren’t perfect. But we have one side trying to set up detention camps, threatening to kill political rivals, consumed with hate. Other side trying at least to be better people.

    I’m asking honestly, I would like to learn. Why is the both sides mindset becoming so prevalent?

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      Why is the both sides mindset becoming so prevalent?

      Liberalism is used, cynically (imo), as a cudgel, to vote against real progressive politics. We can’t have healthcare-for-all because we have to pick the side that isn’t insane or else we get the insane group. And so on, and so on…

      Look at how the Biden admin endorses genocide in Gaza. They completely ignore the masses of protesters calling for a ceasefire. How can they get away with this? “The other side is worse.”

      A truly responsive party would not stick its thumb in the eye of the people. It’s not that both sides are equally awful. It’s that both are awful and one uses the other to retain power.

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        Yes but the problem is despite all their blustering online, people only actually engage at the endgame stage of politics. All these “ideologically pure” leftists are doing jackshit to either ensure progressive leftist ideals win out over liberal ideals in the currently viable sorta left-presenting party or to support independent leftist political parties and groups in down-ballot, local elections, and community policy projects. No, instead these oh-so-great morally-superior “real leftists” instead want to bitch and moan about futility and then opt-out on big voting day while spouting virtues as if their behavior doesn’t prevent real progressive change for the better, incremental though it may be.

        And to very clear, I’m not taking the “fall in line or get out of the way” democrat bullshit stance here. If you really believe in the policy and values of a third party, please vote for them. I will never accuse an involved voter of throwing a vote away. I’m specifically talking about the large chunk of the left who are only left in theory, not practice, the ideological cosplayers who pretend anything less than absolute is not worth fighting for but who don’t put in any effort to ensure that what they want even ever has a chance of ending up on the ballot in front of them.

        It’s easy to stand on virtue and say you won’t support the lesser of two evils, but unless you’re actively working on an alternative, the simple fact is that your abstained position enables the worst-case scenario which will have real-world impact. If we believe in leftist ideals, we should believe in reasonable harm reduction where possible. Same applies here.

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          I see this as a terminally-online thing personally. The folks who walk the walk at a local level don’t tend to spend the time arguing with folks about it on Twitter because they’ve got real outlets for political action. Therefore, their reach is far lower - if you’re not in that local community, you probably wouldn’t know they exist at all.

          A lot of the most annoying castigating on Twitter imo comes from people who are overwhelmed by big problems, or are genuinely marginalized/traumatized in some way, but don’t have an outlet IRL to take action and therefore the Internet takes its place. It’s formed like an attempt at online political action, but really it’s venting. And considering that social media platforms are incentivized to widely spread ideas that make people angry - because that boosts engagement - it’s worth considering their reach online is much, much wider than people posting about measures on their local ballots, or organizing locally, etc.

          I think of my friend Val, who teaches self-defense and organizes for collective defense of queer folks and their families. She’s just about the most sincere lefty I’ve ever met, and she’s not even remotely online because she has no need to be - her people are around her. I aim to take a page out of that book tbh.

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            I don’t disagree with you, but I do think it’s worth considering that there might be vastly more chronically online people than you think.

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              I don’t really have a sense for how common they are across the board - but ofc lots of folks are. I was myself at one point, and still am to some extent but in a much healthier way I think. It’s certainly something that can change over time and I think more and more people are experiencing social media burnout. I try to be optimistic because if there’s hope for me there’s hope for everyone else.

              And it also means that I’m constantly surprised at the number of people I meet near me who are engaged and doing things for the community and I just wouldn’t have seen em online.

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      To quote Vaush: “If the choice is between 99% Hitler and 100% Hitler, you choose 99% Hitler. Full stop.”

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          well why not… that seems like a pretty good representation of progressive/“liberal” rhetoric.

          For reference, I believe that the dem/republican electoral pattern is basically a hostage situation. The Republicans are honest about being horrible, the Dems pretend not to be and use the threat of Republicans to get their way. But like, this pattern is not leading us anywhere good. at some point you have to stop cooperating even if the hostages might get hurt, or you just lose anyway. (Though that’s easier for me to say I have no family and am more or less suicidally depressed. But the alternative is business as usual until the next even more desperate situation)

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            point is, democrats are better, and if you are going to argue this, try not being decently-off and white.

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              That’s the whole point they aren’t better, they are standing by as a genocide is happening in real time and not even verbally protesting. Weeks of indiscriminate bombing, 7k dead, thousands more displaced, revenge for a terrorist attack that killed 2k people, with no end in sight.

              They claim it is all in the name of defeating Hamas but like, cmon. To quote, if you killed the leader of Hamas but caught my brother and uncle in the blast as “acceptable collateral damage”, my immediate reaction would be to start Hamas 2.

              Israelis have compared it to 9/11 to draw sympathy from Americans, and Israel is speedrunning the same awful crap that we did to ourselves and to foreign countries in the years that followed it. In what world has the US’s reaction to 9/11 made the world safer or more peaceful for even the average American, to say nothing of people in the Middle East??

              That is what the Democrats are supporting near unanimously (with the exception of a few house Democrats, thank you ilhan Omar and co). It has to stop ASAP in the name of basic humanity. I can’t stand all this being done in my name

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            (Though that’s easier for me to say I have no family and am more or less suicidally depressed. But the alternative is business as usual until the next even more desperate situation)

            This is an incredibly honest disclaimer and it genuinely makes me sad. Your position is sensible for your situation.

            Are you seeing a psychiatrist or therapist? Are you able to? If not in person, there should be some really good options to do so remotely and without breaking the bank.

            I deal with depression and anxiety too. It can be overwhelming sometimes, and when the world’s gone to shit, it doesn’t take much for it to all collapse. I’ve been there personally. And I can tell you, cliche as it is, it does get better. You don’t even notice it. One day you’ll look at something that reminds you of the dark time period, and you’ll be amazed at how you feel now vs how you felt then.

            Life sucks, but we don’t have to suffer. We can help each other out.

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        Wrong.

        If your choice is two Hitlers, you kill both the fuckers. Full stop.

        There is always another option, you don’t have to accept shit.

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          Nothing says that other option is any better. In a binary situation, you have three options:

          • Choose A
          • Choose B
          • Don’t choose at all

          Deciding to do nothing is still a conscious choice, and it may be the worst one of them all. Choose not to act, and you may throw in your lot with the greatest evil.

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                  Wars especially world wars are a whole lot more involved than just killing politicians. And not every party not even the victors stand to gain anything more than they loose

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                i wanna bet it’s going to be “but we fought the Nazis” or some ML revolution shit that has never worked

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                    the Russian and Cuban systems primarily changed due to modernization and not anything the system did (don’t make the liberal mistake of assuming the advances of modernity are inherent to the system at the time), but China actually got Worse until it “liberalized” its markets and started pulling foreign capital investment

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                    Yes, but transforming power structures doesn’t equate to killing opponents. It is neither sufficient nor necessary. The success of some revolutions shouldn’t be attributed to lethal violence.

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        No number of rights make a wrong and no number of wrongs make a right. That’s not to suggest that there aren’t generations of all of us that have made the best of what they could do. You have to hold to the ideal. It’s incredibly popular to shit on everything because it’s the internet.

        The words worth fighting and dying for: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.”

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      Let’s be more honest. Both sides are horrible.

      Yes, one side is “trying to set up detention camps, threatening to kill political rivals, consumed with hate”. The other side isn’t trying to better people. The vast majority (there are a handful of exceptions) of people in politics are trying to gain power and money for themselves and for their friends.

      The biggest difference is that they haven’t yet crossed the line into actively trying to destroy our democracy.

      That’s certainly enough reason to support that side over the other one. But it’s not the “good side”.

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        Bunch of career politician parasites the lot of them.

        Their only interest is in getting re-elected. If it can’t be fixed in four years, it won’t get done because it’s the next guy’s problem.

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      Because people are tired of having to choose between shit and poison.

      Staying in the middle is a bad idea, the truth is that both sides are bad but one of them is undeniably much worse, though I can’t really blame people shitting on Democrats. As long as they still vote against Republican, obviously.

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        gunna have to agree, having to eat shit may suck, but at least i’ll live to tell the tale

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        Yeah this is pretty much where I am. I think Democrats could be better of course, but I don’t mind how much anyone shits on them so long as they still vote against Republicans.

        If we want things to get better, things have to, well, get better. We have to clean up a filthy house before we can live in a clean one. And we’ll want to clean up the worst of the filth first, which means living with the lesser filth for a while.

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      Both sides ARE bad, but one side is blatantly evil. I was hoping that rise of the internet would make more people aware of it, but somehow it got worse. After 2004 election, I was convinced that the voters will start making a more informed decision, but 2016 proved me wrong.

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        Doesn’t help the collective cognitive dissonance social media has accrued for all partisans. Anyone not terminally online will tend to be the actual definition of a centrist (not this loser strawman concept drafted up every fucking time a thread like this happens) where you contemplate the actual topic at hand and align yourself off your own morals and experiences rather than just blindly ally yourself to every goalpost set by a specific party or ideology.

        90% of people in this thread are clearly affected. Stamped foot head in sand fluoride stare types teehee

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      One side who supports detention camps at home and the other side who supports detention camps abroad.

      Fucking wonderful choices we have here.

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            I don’t see liberals making up excuses like “economic anxiety” for racists nor suggesting that if we just had a better economic platform, all the fascist supporters would instead support us.

            Let’s be real here. Democrats aren’t perfect, but neither are those further left of them. The sooner we can accept that there’s shitty opinions in both camps, the sooner we can actually work together on stopping the fascists.

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                You know, I didn’t realize it until you said it, but centrism is accepting both positions, and it’s also rejecting both positions. In both cases you’re holding the two sides as equivalent.

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                  And ultimately, I feel that authentic political engagement comes from your own values and not fear of associating with people who are in your corner for the wrong reasons. It’s entirely possible to reject mainstream political narratives across the board, come to your own conclusions, and end up somewhere other than the center.

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                    Absolutely. When you come to your own conclusions, it’s easy to disavow radicals that want to rub shoulders with you. When you follow an ideology, you’re forced to associate with everyone who claims to follow that ideology.

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                    Yeah, the only time where I think centrism is valid is actually with Israel, because genuinely the IDF and Hamas are both evil and kill civilians without a care. Even then of course there’s distinctions to make and consider. But that’s a whole separate deal.

                    I think the best position is to be solidly in A or B, but acknowledge that the other side has some valid points and your side has some valid flaws. That’s a mark of wisdom imo. Unfortunately, I think people oversimplify it and think that centrism is the same thing.

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        So you are going to vote for something you know is actively bad? Wow. You’re the problem.

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          There are degrees of bad. I’ll vote for eating a week old sandwich over not voting at all and hoping other people don’t vote for us all eating sandwiches filled with dog shit.

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      People who are either trying to help shift the window further right, or fucking morons who are fascist apologists

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      there no need from outside to destabilize murica. You people are doing it by yourselves by keep voting for shit and shit lite®

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      You mean the Democrats/Liberals who still have detention camps and support the genocide in Gaza?

      To answer your question, what is meant by “both parties are the same” is that neither side has any interest in solving the root causes of virtually every issue within the country and abroad. Democrats and Republicans put the interests of the wealthiest and the preservation of capitalism ahead of all else. It’s a bit unfair to say that everything the parties publicly fight over is a distraction from the conflict between the ultra rich and everyone else when fascism can and does create horrible outcomes for the less privileged. But it’s certainly a convenience for Democrats to be able to say, “at least we’re not Trump” while offering nothing else to those suffering under the constant shift to the right.

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          Your alternative is Trump. There isn’t a third option at this point. So if not Trump isn’t good enough for you…then actual Trump is? Your logic is bad, you should feel bad.

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            There are alternatives, we had Bernie running twice, Marianne Williamson, Cornell West, Howie Hawkins, etc… but the Democratic party actively works against them.

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            Granted, out of two options, not trump is better, but it’s still not good enough. If the choice was to have no food, or to have some food but still not enough.

            I would still choose to have some food over no food but saying my logic is bad for saying that the options available still aren’t good enough isnt particularly helpful. We can demand better while still not choosing the worst option.

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            “Your options in this country are someone actively enabling a genocide, or a pseudo-fascist” -> that country can burn in hell for all I care

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        Democrats/Liberals who still have detention camps

        Who wrote this talking point? The Heritage Foundation, or The GRU?

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          Could also be IRGC, who is having a field day with how Hamas managed to fracture the US left in a hot second. Went from “2024 elections looking pretty good, maybe there’s hope for progressive causes”, to “who knows what’s going to happen now” and Hamas being treated like a reliable news source by mainstream media mere days after commiting the largest terror attack in their history. We’re totally fucked.

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      I truly believe it came about as a result of the loss of the fairness doctrine (thanks piece of shit Reagan) or at least that was part of it. And as a result, Fox News and other garbage like OANN provides absolutely no balanced viewpoints-it’s just alt right garbage with outright lies.

      CNN doesn’t either in the sense it was purchased by a Trump supporter and now presents “both sides” by having Trump’s dumb ass on there.

      Billionaires know this; it’s why arseholes like Elon Husk bought Twitter so they could control the both sides narrative and push anyone that could be “left” into a stupid centrist position.

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        People who are calm and centered tend not to post.

        Or, when they do, are too unengaging for the average person to care to read. People want easily digestible and relatable turmoil, controversy, etc.

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      Democrat =/= liberal

      Most of the democrats you see in politics are center right conservatives

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      What you might be missing is that an ethical global policy will “harm” rich nations initially, liberals are still invested in capitalist outcomes and both side ism is true in that sense, both side are in fact invested in preserving capitalism. In a weird way, trump destroying America has had good outcomes for the global poor and even poor within the U.S.

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      What are you talking about destabilising the US? 😆 This is a decentralized platform, not reserved for the US people, in case you have not realised yet. The country where I am from actually is very good generally at not dividing people in only ‘left’ and ‘right’. Centrist parties have carried the country for the most part. We have a welfare society that most people in other countries seem to look up to. In my country, being liberal is considered right wing (nationalist conservatists considered most right wing). Don’t forget that most people with an opinion have good reason to believe what they do. And everyone should be respected. Democracy wasn’t invented so a bunch of US leftists could create an echo chamber and complain about people who listen to both sides. People who vote for a party you don’t like are not automatically evil. One could argue your leftist parties in the US seem very eager to support the zionist regime in waging a war on civil citizens, aka. supporting the murder of political rivals, genocide, segregation, apartheid. As an outsider, the US political debate mostly looks very clownish, because both sides are just throwing stones whilst living in a glass empire. You need to check yourselves.