dumples@kbin.social to Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 8 months agoOpinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.www.nytimes.comexternal-linkmessage-square64fedilinkarrow-up166arrow-down118file-textcross-posted to: twoxchromosomes@slrpnk.netfeminism@beehaw.org
arrow-up148arrow-down1external-linkOpinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.www.nytimes.comdumples@kbin.social to Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 8 months agomessage-square64fedilinkfile-textcross-posted to: twoxchromosomes@slrpnk.netfeminism@beehaw.org
Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.
minus-squareDkarma@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up8arrow-down4·8 months agoWhat about unfuckable women? Do men ever feel threatened by them to the point of feari g for their lives??? You pretend this is one sided but it is literally not the same for women dating as it is for men. To believe otherwise is incredibly ignorant. The vast majority of men never consider physical violence against them in a relationship. The good men arent afraid to admit that men in general need to do a lot better job of respecting women. You claim: "In other words what you’re saying is women don’t have to be responsible for anything, they can act any way they want. " No one is saying this. You assumed this. Your assumption is simply incorrect. This is the definition of a strawman. You’re fitting an argument the other person never made.
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minus-squareDkarma@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down2·8 months agoOnly it isnt and you’re projecting cuz UK you’re completely wrong.
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minus-squareDkarma@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·8 months agoOh really what did I say that is hateful? You’re still projecting 100% or you just can’t read haha.
What about unfuckable women? Do men ever feel threatened by them to the point of feari g for their lives???
You pretend this is one sided but it is literally not the same for women dating as it is for men.
To believe otherwise is incredibly ignorant.
The vast majority of men never consider physical violence against them in a relationship.
The good men arent afraid to admit that men in general need to do a lot better job of respecting women.
You claim: "In other words what you’re saying is women don’t have to be responsible for anything, they can act any way they want. "
No one is saying this. You assumed this. Your assumption is simply incorrect.
This is the definition of a strawman. You’re fitting an argument the other person never made.
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Only it isnt and you’re projecting cuz UK you’re completely wrong.
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Oh really what did I say that is hateful? You’re still projecting 100% or you just can’t read haha.