This weekend I was really craving getting absolutely pounded so we broke out the strap on! It’s not her favorite thing in the world, and usually I’m more than happy with other ways of play, but every once in a while I just have this overwhelming need to be fucked, and fortunately she was happy to oblige! I asked her to get a little rough, and dominant is more her style so that was a lot of fun too, getting pinned and choked puts me in my happy place!
I gotta say it’s really interesting how since two women who want penetrative sex would use fingers, dildos, and strap-ons, they always have a reliable hard object to use. By contrast, I think gay men assume one of them will have a penis hard enough. That makes me wonder how much fun I could have with a guy if I used a strap on and basically never let him up, and just kept pounding him until he turns into a puddle. I don’t think bottoms are used to that.
Sounds like you have really excellent communication in the bedroom with your gf. To get just the right level of roughness seems like it must be a delicate balance!
Ooh, that’s a great point, I bet you’d get a kick out of it! I don’t know why but I always just assumed gay guys didn’t need anything like that, but there’s no reason they shouldn’t.
We really do, she’s helped me open up so much about what I like and want, and just being comfortable talking about it openly. And roughness is kind of a big kink of mine, I’ve dabbled here and there before but mostly it’s been stuff I’ve fantasized about and seen in porn or read in erotica. Opening up to explore it more for real is really exciting for me!
This weekend I was really craving getting absolutely pounded so we broke out the strap on! It’s not her favorite thing in the world, and usually I’m more than happy with other ways of play, but every once in a while I just have this overwhelming need to be fucked, and fortunately she was happy to oblige! I asked her to get a little rough, and dominant is more her style so that was a lot of fun too, getting pinned and choked puts me in my happy place!
I gotta say it’s really interesting how since two women who want penetrative sex would use fingers, dildos, and strap-ons, they always have a reliable hard object to use. By contrast, I think gay men assume one of them will have a penis hard enough. That makes me wonder how much fun I could have with a guy if I used a strap on and basically never let him up, and just kept pounding him until he turns into a puddle. I don’t think bottoms are used to that.
Sounds like you have really excellent communication in the bedroom with your gf. To get just the right level of roughness seems like it must be a delicate balance!
Ooh, that’s a great point, I bet you’d get a kick out of it! I don’t know why but I always just assumed gay guys didn’t need anything like that, but there’s no reason they shouldn’t.
We really do, she’s helped me open up so much about what I like and want, and just being comfortable talking about it openly. And roughness is kind of a big kink of mine, I’ve dabbled here and there before but mostly it’s been stuff I’ve fantasized about and seen in porn or read in erotica. Opening up to explore it more for real is really exciting for me!