Iwishiwasntthisway [none/use name]

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  • My inlaws are not happy people this last year. I hate to play armchair psychologist or whatever but it’s like their relationship with the place is really brittle and disordered. Amber Frost had a quote somewhat recently about “joy” vs “glee”. Times like these do not evoke joy, they evoke glee. Then they’ll see an article that offers token criticism of civilian losses and despair like the cattle cars are coming.

    I really don’t like a lot of the rhetoric about cultural or racial intergenerational trauma… I think it stretches concepts like family systems and epigenetics to the limit of believability. It also poisoned by the dominant narrative. Zionists are often forgiven for being overly reactive because of intergenerational trauma, but somehow this is not applicable to Russians, for example. And really, all of us living are descended almost entirely from slaves and peasants. Even the oligarchy.

    The “intergenerational trauma” in this case stretches back further than WWII into what basically constitutes ancient mythology. It is an evolved system to reconstitute and consolidate power within that system. The cultural narrative there is intentionally traumatizing, as such that there is a particular disordered response to these matters. It parallels a lot of the defense mechanisms you see in personality disordered people. Black/white thinking, shame vs guilt, extreme measures to avoid shame.


  • I really hate the word gaslighting, everywhere I go on the Internet that’s geared towards women my age it’s gaslighting this or gaslighting that.

    But this really is gaslighting at this point. I can’t even untangle it all. I have no way of explaining it all to somebody who hasn’t been following this shit. I feel like I’d sound like a “crazy ex girlfriend”.

    Sometimes it really does feel like I’m going crazy. And maybe it’s supposed to make me feel like that so I feel powerless or something. But when a 37 year old suburban woman spends a good percentage of her time fantasizing about building an RPG in her garage, there’s got to be some testosterone fueled people who have less to lose who actually might.