ObamaSama [he/him]

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Cake day: May 28th, 2024

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  • Damn I wish, I’d be all over the pretentious introvert app. I totally understand you though, I’ve been hitting a wall of meeting really beautiful, fun people that I don’t have any interest in because we don’t actually talk. A physical connection can only go so far before things fizzle out. I mean it’s not like language doesn’t have its own inherent limitations that prevent you from truly connecting with someone but fuck it’s the best thing we have.

    You identified the unfortunate root of the problem: people that will talk your ear off about Lacan are probably not going to be out clubbing every weekend. Dating apps are realistically one of the only ways but it’s still so hard to find like minded people there. I really wish I had a solution for ya, still trying to figure that one out myself. Try not to chalk it up as a personal failure though, being single is absolutely fine! It’s hard to do but the more you put yourself out there and open yourself to new experiences the better your odds will be. You can occasionally get lucky and meet the coolest person in your life at a temple stay deep in some Korean mountains but it never lasts 😭




  • I went to a pro Palestine rally here in Tokyo over the weekend, it was pretty cool! Unfortunately I was too shy to really chat with anyone there outside of basic pleasantries so I ended up leaving feeling more alienated and sad than before lol. I have no idea how to break into existing social groups, I feel too self conscious about butting into conversations unprompted. I also think the format of the rally wasn’t really conducive to chatting though since there wasn’t much down time, hopefully I’ll have better luck at the next food not bombs crush







  • Fully agreed, it’s very validating to see other people acknowledge a lot of horrible realities most handwave or deny. It can really throw you into a solipsistic spiral when everyone around you seems to gaslight you or completely deny reality as you experience it. Simply seeing other posts here that I can really relate to has helped my mental health significantly




  • One of my favorite games of the 360 generation, I remember thinking that this level of destruction was the future of gaming. 15+ years later and it still has yet to be surpassed outside of like Teardown.

    The multiplayer was also an absolute blast, the different backpack abilities and full destruction mechanics made for one of the most unique mp experiences. I ended up buying it again on pc twice just to experience it again, sadly it seems completely dead now even in the small community groups I used to play with