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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Reconstruction was ended too early, in large part because of the Lincoln assassination, and the very questionable choice to appease the South by putting Andrew Johnson a heartbeat away from the presidency

    We definitely should have been draconian in punishing the south, but our greatest mistake is civility politics. The leaders were all in the same social circles, and to this day that’s a recurring problem that plagues most democracies. They didn’t want real consequences for their buddies

    So all in all, we didn’t strip enough power from the leadership and stopped punishment way earlier than even the overly light-handed plan in place


  • Well, not quite… See they’re trying to keep daylight savings time permanently instead of staying with normal time permanently

    This has been attempted before, and it didn’t last through the winter. It’s apparently pretty brutal on people when the sun doesn’t rise until 9 or 10, and experts say it’s possibly the worst option for public health


  • theneverfox@pawb.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneCrazy Brits rule
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    Yeah but the context clues are a hell of a lot easier there. You’re holding an object, and if someone called it a chupa-chupa or a sucker most people would be able to put that together pretty easily

    Now imagine you’re going through stretches and someone walks in and is like “oh, playing football are you”. You could be preparing to go outside and play football… But you’re just stretching

    I think most people would be confused by that unexpected second meaning of a familiar word


  • I think it’s more of a “don’t hold onto hatred” kinda thing. They’re dead, so let it go for your own sake, as well as those grieving. It doesn’t help anyone

    I don’t think it applies to public figures though… At least not if their family isn’t around. Hell, I think it’s just fine to celebrate the world becoming a better place

    I don’t let hatred build up in myself, but I sure as hell have felt hope when I see some monsters have gone





  • Based on how my conversations have gone, I’d just skip explaining the federation part entirely. Most people don’t care

    I’d just say it’s like Reddit, but more friendly and less addictive. Sell that they’ll get all the important news and memes, but without the ads, bots, and garbage content shoved in their faces

    I’d also pick a home server for them and help them set it up, lemmy.world is probably good as a default if they’re coming from mainstream socials

    Truth is, most people really don’t care how it works. They just want it to work, and their first impression shouldn’t be choice overload or a data dump



  • I understand that all too well.

    I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about why. I used to think there was something I was needed for, but now I don’t know how I would ever impact more than a handful of lives. The world is pretty fucked.

    Now I’ve come to believe it’s about ourselves, about growth. We’re here to learn some kind of lesson, either something we chose in some way or as a punishment. If it were all random, why would the easy way out be blocked?

    I try to help the people around me. I spend a lot of time looking inside myself, trying to speed run whatever I’m supposed to take from this experience so I won’t have to do it again. I try to understand humanity, both the good and the flaws. I try to understand the world. I try to understand myself

    When I get deep enough into meditation, a handful of times I’ve had visions. Just a flash of a scene and sometimes a message partially understood, then I’m thrown back to rock solid reality. It only happens when I’m very deep in meditation, otherwise even substances don’t make me see more than colors.

    I think the way out is through new experiences. To experience new sides of life

    I find myself having little to tie me down, so I think I’m going to set up my car as a sleeper and go on a journey. Try to taste true freedom and go wherever the wind takes me, to search for beauty and answers, and overcome whatever inevitable challenges that brings

    If that doesn’t work, maybe I’ll try to live with monks for a time, and see if a life free of distractions will bring answers or some form of joy

    All I can tell you for sure is that you’re not alone, to seek joy wherever you can find it, and to take it one day at a time… Not like there’s another option