My gf(30) revealed she has gone through my phone behind my back and during an argument brought up a message to a random woman I matched with on tinder and never met. The thing is this was a good 4-5 MONTHS before I even knew she existed. I have been very open with my phone and given her the password but I still feel betrayed. Are my feeling justified?
Your feelings are justified, that’s a massive breach of trust and it sound slime she’s looking for something to be mad about. She has trust issues, and you two need to sit down and talk about it, and if she’s not willing to budge it might be time to break it off. It’s not normal for a partner to scrutinize your phone, it’s unhealthy.