My gf(30) revealed she has gone through my phone behind my back and during an argument brought up a message to a random woman I matched with on tinder and never met. The thing is this was a good 4-5 MONTHS before I even knew she existed. I have been very open with my phone and given her the password but I still feel betrayed. Are my feeling justified?
Particularly because the sorts of people who creep through others’ phones without asking also tend to be the same sorts of people who gaslight, deny, project, etc… “Why are you overreacting!? It’s totally normal to be jealous! It’s because I care for you so much!” Etc…etc…
It’s all different sides of the same lack of boundaries.