My gf(30) revealed she has gone through my phone behind my back and during an argument brought up a message to a random woman I matched with on tinder and never met. The thing is this was a good 4-5 MONTHS before I even knew she existed. I have been very open with my phone and given her the password but I still feel betrayed. Are my feeling justified?
This. If I were OP, I would feel rage, betrayal, sadness, and probably a bunch of other stuff. Having sudden and intense emotions is a good time for anyone to step back and think, “Why am I reacting this way? What are these feelings trying to tell me?” And reaching out to others online is one way to rebuild a sense of trust that you’re not crazy.