My gf(30) revealed she has gone through my phone behind my back and during an argument brought up a message to a random woman I matched with on tinder and never met. The thing is this was a good 4-5 MONTHS before I even knew she existed. I have been very open with my phone and given her the password but I still feel betrayed. Are my feeling justified?
Yes, your feelings are justified.
Can I ask how you found out she did this?
Did she volunteer the information to you with a deep apology about a moment of weakness on her part with and admission of all the appropriate shame she should feel for violating you and your trust?
…or…
Or did you catch her and was she unapologetic and tried to justify that she had a right to do this to you?