My gf(30) revealed she has gone through my phone behind my back and during an argument brought up a message to a random woman I matched with on tinder and never met. The thing is this was a good 4-5 MONTHS before I even knew she existed. I have been very open with my phone and given her the password but I still feel betrayed. Are my feeling justified?

  • lightnsfw@reddthat.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    And it doesn’t matter if a partner has been burnt before - that is their problem and something they need to learn to come to terms with and move past. Taking that into their next relationship and holding their fears and insecuriteis over a partner is a recipe for disaster.

    Yea, I have trust issues from being burned by every long term relationship I’ve ever had. So I’m not trying to date anymore. I’m not bringing that shit into someone else’s life.