I’m pretty sure im bi and have identified as bi but am starting to question if im actually bi. Not really sure how I can prove that I’m actually bi to myself

  • Bicyclejohn@lemmy.mlOP
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    1 year ago

    A boundary I made for myself. Basically 3 weeks ago my bf went mia. I fell back into my porn addiction but decided I wouldn’t let myself look at guy stuff. It was 20 days of constant sadness and while things got slightly better since last weekend he still hasn’t come back.

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      1 year ago

      That was not what I was expecting.
      Hope things go well.
      In these circumstances I don’t have much advice, but as @Netsettler2k@lemmy.one said, don’t worry too much about lables
      good luck

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          1 year ago

          That’s no problem, don’t be sorry. I just don’t have good advice to give on such topics. On such serious topics my advice might be more harmful than helpful

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            1 year ago

            At least things are getting better. Before last weekend I’d spend my days crying in my room. It feels wrong that I’m distracting myself but at least I’m not as perpetually sad now.

            I just worry that by watching porn I’m being unloyal to him

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                1 year ago

                I just feel like I’m not good enough. Is it wrong to look at that stuff while in a relationship? I don’t want to hurt him

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                  1 year ago

                  Have you two ever discussed mastubation and porn? I am very much not qualified to talk about relationships. My thoughts about it would be that there is nothing to be hurt by and that it’s normal to have sexual disires

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                    1 year ago

                    Regarding porn Yes we have but before we made things offical. I should put more effort into quitting tho

                    As for mastrubation we would both do it together. Its a long distance thing so that’s what we would do.