barbara-pit for Cringetopia users

Also I hope people in here are decent about plurals. r/fakedisordercringe is another one of the “be normal debatebro-l” instances

  • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.mlEnglish
    8·
    10 months ago

    Yeah, I suppose if someone does have an unusual gender identity they would expect other people to not understand and ask questions. I don’t really understand non-binary gender too well, but as a cis-gendered person, it’s basically just because I’ve never thought about it. It’s not something I’ve ever had to question or examine within myself. I think that is why so many cis people refuse to try to understand people different from them. They’ve never thought about that stuff, therefore no one else has. Or something, I don’t know. I just want to be nice to people.

    • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
      5·
      10 months ago

      NB can be a lot of things. I identify that way because I don’t feel male or female, at least not fully. Like if there is a gender spectrum from male to female, I sit around the middle but more towards the male side. But it varies a bit.

      The xenogender stuff, I admit I don’t really get it either. But if someone is sincere about it, I try and trust that it makes sense to them, and it’s not my place to judge its validity. As you say, I think the main thing is to be kind to others and let them try and make sense of who they are in their own way, even if it seems incomprehensible or even ridiculous from the outside