• Shiggles@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    Given that raising a child is, from a sourceless quick google, about $20-30k a year, they better not be. As for loneliness, a cat’s about $650 a year, and makes a similar level of intelligent conversation for the first ten years or so.

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        11 months ago

        It’s ok though, the US government will pay you to have children, because come tax time, the only thing more important than revenue is guaranteeing future wage slaves

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        11 months ago

        Or maybe proper care for a kid really does cost $20k a year and half the population could not care for one without assistance or a partner to help cover those costs.

        Plenty of children go without in this country.

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            I have one child in daycare 4 days a week. The cost is $70 per day. It was actually one of the lower cost options in my area as it’s run by a mom out of her home. For child care alone, I’m paying over $14k /year. Now a typical family may not have the means to pay that. But they need time away from their kids to work the same as I do. Maybe they’re lucky enough to have family nearby that can help. But that’s still a cost that has to be paid when you talk about the cost of having a child. In this case the family member is a covering the.cost via donated labor.

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      11 months ago

      IMO, children in their early life are mainly expensive in opportunity costs, assuming you have a full time parent taking care of the child. Diapers are food are relatively cheap but taking a parent out of the work force or the alternate, providing day care, is very expensive.

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      11 months ago

      What the? Where I live, a kid costs between 350 and 700 per month, 250€ monthly tax reduction/month/child by the government not factored in

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      11 months ago

      a similar level of intelligent conversation for the first ten years or so.

      At first I thought that was hyperbole. Then I remembered my friend’s 8yo…

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      11 months ago

      Admittedly, I don’t have a cat, but I would have thought they’re more expensive than that. My parents had / have cats. A vet bill is like $150 a pop.

      I think I’d want one of those self-cleaning litter boxes as well (if I had a cat). Those start around $600, right?

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        11 months ago

        Well vets visits shouldn’t be much more frequent than once a year, and believe it or not, $600 litter boxes are optional. Also, whatever litterbox you buy should last more than a year.