onions r delicious

Yea

It’s to make people think they have some amount of individualist control over ecological collapse. If you just recycle, then you are helping the environment! Do not look further into this.

gross

especially the ones about taking a pay cut and not needing a raise

fuck you, pay me

my masc name is cool as shit actually

Had a similar experience

oh ya for real

like right after i posted this i was trying to figure out what the double meaning behind something someone else said was for like 10 minutes straight

it’s so exhausting, my relationships where we both know the other is saying what they mean are SO much easier

i definitely see stuff i would define as horny posting fairly often

but the horniness level tends to be lower than it is in other places, which for me personally means it’s fine bc it doesn’t trigger my sex repulsion. but it’s def there

relatable

I have mixed thoughts on therapy, I started it a few months ago (my health care provider offered me free therapy, yippee) and the most helpful things my therapist has done for me is recommend me books that go in depth into a subject.

There are some things I could never tell my therapist bc I know they’d try to “fix” me (namely the fact I’m plural), and dealing with that would probably do a lot of harm. I can’t tell them about any self-harming thoughts because I’ll be institutionalized. But it has been helpful to work through understanding my abusive relationship, how to deal with anxiety, how to navigate my relationship with my parents in a safe way that won’t get me kicked out, etc.

Basically I don’t know everything about the world or myself and having someone tell me what they know is useful, but the interactions also inherently feel somewhat adversarial because of the aforementioned reasons, which limits the effectiveness. I sure as fuck wouldn’t pay money for it, lol.

Not really.

I started therapy a bit before I broke up with my abusive ex. I had always thought that I had a very good way of introspecting; when there were problems in the relationship I was able to reflect on my actions and improve myself. Turns out I was just being gaslit into thinking everything was my fault, and I needed a therapist who knew what tells of abuse and abuse victims were so it could be clear to me that I was acting like an abuse victim and my relationship was obviously and clearly abusive.

Your perspective on yourself and your actions is not infallible, everyone is prone to biases and blindspots.

have you considered how much happier you’d be if you were happy?

to think all those poor citizens had to learn how to perfectly paint realism just to pull this stunt… that’s so sad…

did you know they actually put those lights on just for the picture, bc no one in north korea actually has electricity. crazy.

ya

lmao, there’s been nothing worth playing on console in a while

i can’t sit at a desk so i don’t have a computer (i use a laptop instead), but i’ve been using my steam deck everyday and it’s very cool and comfy and can run things pretty well

good is when wear round glasses

bad is when wear square glasses

hope that helps

my gap is too long to scuff dates for so i’ve just been saying i was freelancing

innocent, im not, but im occassionally sex repulsed and also like, have trauma around being sworn at, so i usually pretend to not get sex things and hate swearing so people don’t bring it up around me. you can really shut down dirty jokes by being like “what’s that? :3” if people really believe that you genuinely don’t know and don’t want to ruin your innocence. but like, im polyam and into bdsm, lmao.

really outgoing and pushy. it’s tiring for me. but people will never initiate conversations to maintain friendships, so if i want to do that i have to. it’s kinda annoying and makes me feel not appreciated but i know they just don’t want to be awkward.

and uh not plural, i hate explaining what DID is to people and i hate having to deal with their preconceptions about it. whenever i wanna talk about my alters i pretend they’re OCs for dnd or something so i don’t have to explain all that baggage with it.

worst thing my abusive ex ever told me was that macos was the best os 😔

i have played 0 of these games so they’re all bad probably