stigsbandit34z [they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 months ago

Who else doesn’t get hugs because people think you don’t like them

stigsbandit34z [they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 months ago

It’s not that I don’t like them, it’s that I literally do not know what to do. Like why do some people get hugs without initiating and just assume I don’t like hugs

Is this relatable whatsoever

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Yeah I actually enjoy hugs but I’m just awkward about it, like idk when it’s appropriate, and I’m too nervous to initiate it, etc etc.

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